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From special needs to troubled
teens
How well are ADHD kids coping
with the
transition to adolescence?
By Deana Stokes Sullivan
Going from childhood to adolescence
is tough for any kid. Trying to fit in and deal with
puberty and pimples is bad enough. Add to the mix some
impulsive behaviour, inattentiveness and hyperactivity,
common signs of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder
(ADHD), and you've got a potentially troubled teen,
according to Scott Downey. He should know -- in addition
to being a child and adolescent psychologist, he had
ADHD as a child, which went undiagnosed until he was
an adult.
"I was hyperactive when I
was younger and I guess I'm still hyperactive now because
I've got three jobs," he jokes. "But at least now I'm
hyperactive in a more productive way." In addition to
assessing and diagnosing children in a learning-behaviour
clinic, Mr Downey also counsels children with ADHD at
the Janeway Child Health Centre in St. John's, Newfoundland.
Under the umbrella of ADHD
there are three sub-types: ADHD primary inattentive,
ADHD primary hyperactive and ADHD combined, where daydreaming,
inattention, distractibility and hyperactivity occur
at the same time.
"Kids with ADHD, who also
have hyperactivity, present with even more concerns
because their hyperactivity gets them into trouble,"
says Mr Downey. Sometimes when children with ADHD reach
adolescence, he says, the hyperactivity decreases even
though the other symptoms continue.
Many teens with ADHD also
have learning disabilities. "A lot of times they may
be bright kids, but
they're not achieving academically because of their
symptoms," he says. There are a lot of teens with ADHD
who have been quite successful going through the adolescent
stage, but the necessary supports, counselling and understanding
of ADHD are crucial. "It's important for teens with
ADHD to know that they have strengths and needs that
are different than some other people, but they're not
abnormal, crazy, retarded or stupid," says Mr Downey.
He often tells his clients and their parents his own
personal story to give them hope and assure them that
they're normal and OK.
Downey notes that some teens
with ADHD find they can improve their attention span
and focusing ability through things like exercise. In
his own personal experience, he has achieved this through
martial arts, but he stresses that every person is an
individual and it's important for them to find their
own interests. A lot of kids with ADHD don't stick at
things for very long, but often when they find something
they like, "they can become much better than average
at it because they tend to overfocus on things they're
interested in," says Mr Downey.
Mr Downey has seen a lot
of young people he's counselled actually follow in his
footsteps and become involved in martial arts and music.
Three of his male clients with ADHD have become musicians.
"A fair number are also involved in hockey," says Downey,
but he points out that group activities are not always
suitable for people with ADHD. They can have difficulty
being part of a team because they can get distracted
easily and if they're daydreaming, they'll be chastised
by the team for not focusing. "In individual sports,
they do well," he says.
Teens with ADHD often socialize
with other ADHD kids. They all hang around together,
most of them aren't doing well in school so they goof
off and get into trouble. "It can be difficult for parents
to deal with, but when you're an adolescent, the most
important thing for you is what your peer group thinks,
not your family and not your parents," says Mr Downey.
"There's no clear cookbook, answers or steps to follow,
but if parents start off by punishing their child for
opening up and being honest, then that communication
is going to be quickly shut off," he cautions.
On the positive side ADHD
is being diagnosed earlier today and there are more
supports and resources for children and youth with the
disorder. Ten years ago, Mr Downey recalls having a
lot of adolescents referred to him for the first time,
but now most referrals are coming in for children in
primary grades, from kindergarten up. Guidance counsellors
in the school system are much more educated today about
ADHD.
There are also new medications
available, says Mr Downey, such as Concerta. Unlike
Ritalin, which had to be taken in the morning and again
in the afternoon during school hours, Concerta can be
taken just once a day, taking away the stigma of having
to pop pills in front of other kids.
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